Everybody Fights

"My wife drives me crazy sometimes. My husband should already know what I need. Is our marriage in trouble if we fight all the time? Is it possible to learn how to fight? For the last several years, Penn and Kim Holderness have done the hard maintenance and the research. With the help of their marriage coach Dr. Christopher Edmonston, they break down their biggest (and in some cases, funniest) fights. How did a question about chicken wings turn into a bra fight (no, not a bar fight; a bra fight)? How did a roll of toilet paper lead to tears, resentment, and a stint in the guest bedroom? With their trademark sense of humor and complete vulnerability, Penn and Kim share their ten most common Fight Fails and how to combat them. Throughout the book, they offer scripts for how to start, continue, and wrap up hard conversations. Couples will emerge equipped to engage and understand, not do battle, and maybe laugh a little more along the way. In Everybody Fights, couples will learn how to -conjure the magic of metacommunication -break free of secret contracts -banish the three Ds: distraction, denial, and delay -carry their own individual baggage while helping each other deal with theirs Penn and Kim want people to know they're not alone. Marriage is messy. Marriage is work. But marriage is worth it. Fight for it."